I feel most tense when?

Feeling: tired and unmotivated 
Loving: the sound of rain on my window
Eating: a chocolate covered cherry
Watching: Greenleaf 
Meditating: on forgiving & healing
Listening: to the rain and my kids 
Thankful:  for TikTok making me laugh

Well today's question is what makes me most tense....

I would say that lately it would be when hubby comes home or we've been fighting.  Not to often do I feel relaxed around him. We had a few good times Christmas shopping but being around him most times just brings we anxiety.